Victory

We are facing trials daily and have the slightest idea of how to escape heated situations without allowing the flesh to rise. Example: You commend a person on how well they are doing something eventhough there is not much improvement it is your job to speak it into existence and it shall come to pass. We must remember that we must be dutiful and on time with God's work and our physical work on the job. God donot want us to be slothful. Romans 12:11 and Hebrews 6:12 verifies what God would have us to do.
Romans 12:9-13 states: 1) Let love be without hypocrisy. 2) Abhor that which is evil; cling to that which is good. a) Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love, in b) honor preferring one another; 4) not slothful in business; a) fervent in spirit; b) serving the Lord; 5) Rejoicing in hope; a) patient in tribulation; b) continuing diligently in prayer; 6) Distributing to the necessity of the saints; a) given to hospitality.
Hebrews 6:9-12 states:But beloved, 1) we are persuaded better things of you, and 2) things that accompany salvation, though we thus speak. 3) For God is not unrighteous to forget your work and labor of love, which 4) ye have shown toward his name, in that a) ye have ministered to the saints, and b) do minister. 5) And we desire tha every one of you do show the same diligence to the full assurance of hope unto the end; 6) That ye be not slothful, but a) followers of them who through faith and b) patience inherit the promises.
If that person retaliates just pray for them. I know that this may bother you a bit; just place it in God's hand and love them. God will correct them appropriately. Once they are convicted by the holyspirit then they will do better and appreciate people like you into their lives.